Love Coach Juan Smalls shares his theory about communication: "Communication is like a fart. It's better OUT, than IN!" #love #RELATIONSHIPS #COMMUNICATION #MARRIAGE

Before you go breaking up with your boring partner, let us clarify. We don’t necessarily mean END the relationship altogether because most things can be worked through. We simply mean put a stop to the boring parts. You know, life has a way of chipping away at our relationships: jobs and job related travel, the dreaded in-laws, church activities, the kids, conflict and misunderstandings, social lives… you get the picture. Chip, chip, chip until we one day wake up and reali

Picture this. Midtown, Atlanta. 2016. You and your partner are discussing a problem between the two of you. Maybe he was late picking you up from the airport or perhaps you didn’t fold the clothes to his liking (it’s always the trivial things that fuel the flame, right?). At first, you both try to talk nicely and listen to each other, but soon you notice your partner starting to shut down. You feel ignored or think he doesn’t care, so you become agitated. It shows in you

Have you ever felt that you were in competition with your spouse? Ever felt like you were on two sides of the battlefield trying to wage war with one another? Maybe you raise your voice to emphasize a point and your spouse raises their voice right back - or storms off to another room. Perhaps you nitpick one another endlessly to show how the other could do it better, differently, or more like you. Or maybe you really need to talk but you no longer bother trying to communicat